When you mourn for a spouse or a pet who has passed to the next realm, there is a grieving process which must be completed. At first, you’ll be in shock and you won’t be able to think. This passes until you feel the pain from your loss. Many people make the mistake of holding onto this pain. When you learn through meditation, for instance, to let go, then, you’ll go to the last stage of the grievi...

Are you in a bad relationship because you believe that any change would only make things worse? Change is scary. Nevertheless, a life altering decision will make you happy.When you don’t feel sure about things, it’s okay to take some time to be alone, but take some time to listen to these songs. They will make you feel empowered.     *  Fighter by Christina Aguilera  ...

There is no formal education on dating. Consequently, there is - 80% of the time - delving into a relationship blind. If you’re part of  the lucky 20%, then, you’ve found your soul mate, and you already feel comfortable with each other.Dating is like interviewing for a job - a permanent job. It takes self-confidence to promote yourself. On the first three dates, you do your best to make a goo...

When you’re single, your primary goal is to find a soul mate or a partner. To do so you have to primarily look good. Being physically attractive will catch the eye of the opposite sex. For this reason, people who are single have gym memberships, and workout frequently.Then, the right person comes along. And you know this person is right for you because right away you feel comfortable. All of a sud...

A new area in counseling has opened up over the past decade. Today, for counseling you can go to a psychiatrist, psychologist, or a life coach. The latter offers pragmatic advice to make the changes that you want come about.People will make you laugh when they complain in a full blown rant how they always get screwed. When you ask them what they plan on doing in the future to prevent from being sc...

The judge called for a fifteen minute recess, but the lawyers knew that the recess would be 30 minutes. You see, the judge is a smoker, and she had been admonished severely for smoking in her chambers. For this reason, the judge had to take the elevator down stairs, and walk through the corridors until she reached outdoors where the dumpsters picked up the trash. It was here where the judge could ...

Self-expression reveals your beliefs, your ideas, and your thoughts. If you’re afraid to do so at a party or at a social occasion, then, follow through with your gut feeling. There are only a few opportunities when an individual can trust that other people won’t be judgmental, discriminatory, or stigmatize. Getting a feel of the surroundings and the people is following your internal guidance syste...

There would be more harmony in the world if people would apologize... sincerely. Many hurt feelings could  be reversed with an apology. The common inauthentic apology does not help in healing. It does make the hurt and unhappiness worse.  On the other hand, when an apology is authentic, then, it shows remorse. The person truly is trying to atone for the guilt and regret he/she feels.An a...

Your eyes plays a big part in body language. For instance, when you look directly at someone, you are making that person feel important. However, when your eyes wonder around the room, you're telling the other person that you really aren’t interested. Your eyes say a lot more than the words you speak.Without any words spoken, people make judgments by what you wear, your outward behavior, and your ...

A soul mate is a person who enriches your life, and is someone who you can trust with your secrets. There are six things to look for in a potential soul mate. The first is values, and do his/her values match yours. Secondly, being emotionally healthy means that the person doesn’t carry any personal baggage from a previous relationship. For instance, when he/she has a positive attitude about things...